Friendship Day: 7 tips to maintain a good and long-lasting friendship

Having a trusted friend whom you can rely upon without any doubt is a rarity. But once you develop such a good bonding with someone then you should make sure that such a friendship lasts lifelong.

Ups and downs and other challenges in life can affect your bonding or friendship. Even then, if you follow certain friendship tips you can easily maintain strong bonding with your dear friend the longest possible.

Be a good listener

Everyone has some problems that they want to share. As a good friend your first responsibility is to be a good listener so that your friend can open his heart fully with you, discuss problems and expect you to understand and if possible offer him some support.

Find time for your friend

A hectic lifestyle, work, and family commitments may leave you with very little spare time. Many times that stop you from staying connected with your friends. But these are people who are your true support when in times of difficulty. So try to find time for them by contacting them through message or call and if possible visiting them whenever possible.

Show gratitude

Even if you are quite well-to-do and at the peak of your health, you still need help from your friends at one time or the other. Showing gratitude by speaking directly, sending a small gift or a special message can further strengthen the bond of friendship.

Try to resolve conflicts immediately

Misunderstandings and arguments are normal in friendship. But it should never be left unresolved for a long time. Instead resolving such conflicts immediately by putting your ego aside ensures that your friendship is not affected by such small incidences.

Accept differences

No two people can be similar. Each will have a plus and minuses. But if you have accepted the other person as a friend then accepting the differences is the first thing you must do so that there are no hiccups in your relationship at the latter stage.

Be compassionate when they are vulnerable

When your friend is opening up about his mistakes, hurts, guilt, and problems he is very much vulnerable. At that time he does need sound advice but he also needs someone who is compassionate to embrace and pat the back and to feel comfortable in your company.

Look out for them

Whenever you find your friend in a difficult spot in society or professionally, simply look out for them, be their support, and if possible care for them whenever needed.