Sangati Jogwar

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  • Despite so much freedom in modern times there still exist certain dating issues.
  • Many girls or boys believe that not having a stable partner or a girlfriend/boyfriend makes life incomplete.

Dating is the best way in modern times to find the right partner before marriage. Dating each other allows you to find out compatibility and whether you will be able to spend the rest of your life together or are better off just as good friends/acquaintances. The courting period can extend from a couple of months to years and sometimes include a certain period of live-in relationship.

Despite so much freedom in modern times there still exist certain dating issues that tend to bother the youngsters while finding the right life partner.

Myth of being one with the other

For ages, people have believed that there is one particular person out there in this world who is exclusively for you. The myth stresses that when you meet your soul mate you will feel one with him and that you can depend completely on him/her and achieve complete fulfillment.

However, such myths are debunked at every step in modern times as no such ideal partnership exists. The solution is to never believe in such an unrealistic thought and instead approach your dating phase as a testing period. Keeping an open mind and realistic approach in a relationship will ensure that you at least do not end up having dreamy expectations from your partner.

Overreliance

Many girls or boys believe that not having a stable partner or a girlfriend/boyfriend makes life incomplete. That is never the case as it is you who within yourself should feel complete and build a life that makes you happy and confident. Overreliance on the fact that this particular person is responsible for my happiness or sorrow can mess up your relationship and will never let you settle.

Modern isolation

In today’s times working at home, scrolling through social media pages, and ordering food is the general pattern of life for many bachelors who are introverted. So they do not have an idea exactly how a relationship works or whether a particular person is right for them when they are suddenly thrown into a group or community gathering.

Although due to work and life balance it may not be possible to socialise very frequently going out once a week and mixing with people of the same age can get you out of this modern isolation syndrome and help you understand exactly what you are looking for in a partner.

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