Man refuses dowry, gets rejected, internet stunned by logic of bride’s father

A bizarre arranged marriage story has taken the internet by storm after a wealthy groom was rejected for refusing dowry. The tale, shared on Reddit by a user claiming to be the groom’s cousin, has ignited conversations around societal expectations, toxic mindsets, and the persistence of illegal customs.

The 27-year-old groom, who owns luxury cars, hails from a family involved in real estate and hospitality, and possesses ancestral wealth seemed like the perfect match. Financially secure and independent, he reportedly pays an income surcharge applicable only to those earning above ₹50 lakh annually.

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The Proposal Turns Sour

Everything seemed ideal when he met a career-focused and family-oriented bride. Both families approved until the bride’s father asked, “What dowry would you like?” The groom immediately declined, refusing any gifts or property.

But the bride’s father insisted, offering a duplex flat or a Range Rover, claiming it was a token of value. When the groom stood firm, the father shockingly called off the wedding, saying, “If a high-value man refuses dowry, there must be a defect in him.” He compared the groom to cheaper brands, arguing that true worth demands a price a comment that left users stunned.

Reddit Reacts

The post gathered over 500 comments, with users debating the father’s logic. Some suggested dowry was used as a “bargaining chip”, while others called it a disturbing reflection of class arrogance.

A Reflection of Deep-Rooted Flaws

The incident underlines a grim truth even in modern India, that wealth and values can clash when social customs outweigh conscience. Refusing dowry should earn respect, not rejection.